Is it fair to ask if Obama was being held to a higher level of scrutiny regarding these issues due to his race? I'd agree with you that he did not do much to deal with those issues, but that puts him in the company of every President we've ever had. I will concede that we've never had a conversation about your thoughts on any other President so I don't have an answer to whether or not you feel any differently about Obama in that regard.
The other question I would have is what the President's role should be in preventing out of wedlock children or reducing violence in inner cities. These seem like more far-reaching issues than one man, even the most powerful one in the world, can realistically tackle. I'm not saying you're wrong about whether or not he did enough, but I think the change needs to come from everyone involved, and I don't think the right has any better answer at this point.