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    Quote Originally Posted by thethe View Post
    I don't agree with that. If you're in a good company performance means everything.
    To a degree yes, but humans are pack animals by nature, so you're more inclined to give someone a promotion based on skills if you have a clear differentiator. If things are close you always go to your friends, family, long time co-workers, etc.
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    Quote Originally Posted by zitothebrave View Post
    To a degree yes, but humans are pack animals by nature, so you're more inclined to give someone a promotion based on skills if you have a clear differentiator. If things are close you always go to your friends, family, long time co-workers, etc.
    There definitely is a "good ol boys" club in my company - all seem to have high power job... Luckily a few of them are braves fans :)

    My owner of my company is actually part owner of the Nats - and we have box suite seats to every game... It's actually a pretty awesome perk and when I'm able to get some tickets its really an easy to way to network with the higher ups.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Runnin View Post
    Customer Service by AA

    AA: GOOD Morning, sir. How may my BIG, loveable and intelligent self impress you today?

    Customer: Uh…. well…

    AA: Let me stop you right there. You’re probably surprised to see a Bla-- I mean, an Af-foREE-Ameri-CAN in a job like this.

    Customer: What?

    AA: You know they wanted me to run the whole company.

    C: They did?

    AA: That’s right, but I said, “No siree, can’t do it. The customers need my expertise and selfless devotion.”

    C: That’s nice.

    AA: By the way, I played a little pro ball in Europe.

    C: Huh?

    AA: Sure did.

    C: Okay. Well, here’s my receipt. Looks like a mixup on the order.

    AA: Let ol’ AA take a look at that. … uh huh…uh huh. I see where YOU screwed up.

    C: Pardon me.

    AA: Yep! But don’t worry. Lot a folks do that.

    C: They do?

    AA: Sure do, but ya know what, ol’ AA would never make that mistake. Know why?

    C: Why?

    AA: Well, I’ll tell ya. In fact, got the perfect little anecdote illustrate. You aren’t in a hurry are ya?

    C: Actually I am.

    AA: Good. You’re gonna love this. You see, you probably think I’m a liberal, but I’m neither on the right or the left……

    C:
    My goodness I never laughed so much. Thanks for that Running, it made my day. Unfortunately, I am in the programming business and I deal with managers/vendors and not customers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sturg33 View Post
    It's really simply about performance. I'm a business manager now and am managing 5 people now and I'm only 24. I started as a client specialist 2 years ago but got two contracts signed with AMZ and Home Depot that brought in millions. If you bring in far more money then they are paying you, they will take notice.
    My brother said that my current company is abusing me. I already went to the doc with a heart attack because I am miserable, I work too much and stress, to be honest, these boards gets me through the day. My doc said at my current salary I am being f*cked over and this area is terrible for what I do. She suggested that I move, but I can't. Okie has my facebook account, knows my family and what I have as in house and family, yeah go ahead and pm him, he would say I am black, my wife is pretty and my kid are gorgeous and I haven't been pulling you all legs for 10 years. I live in a great place as my kids love to drive their mechanize atv's in the yard. I can't give this up for the cities. I turned down several more high paying jobs but they want me to relocate but don't want to pay the Real Estate fees. Starbucks, which my brother is the VP of his facility, is willing to pay me $160k to take over their IT department. I asked my wife and the look she gave me was..hell no, I am not moving to California. You see it is not that I can't get the job I want, there is too many factors in the decision and that is why I am upset. A prime job in my city that pays Minneapolis rates was for the taking and since I am nice person I didn't get the job. I know now that I have to be dick in an interview from now on in Fortune 20 companies.

    Still hoping the other candidate that beat me his rap sheet show some blemishes.

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    But I bet you looked nice in the dress.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AerchAngel View Post
    My brother said that my current company is abusing me. I already went to the doc with a heart attack because I am miserable, I work too much and stress, to be honest, these boards gets me through the day. My doc said at my current salary I am being f*cked over and this area is terrible for what I do. She suggested that I move, but I can't. Okie has my facebook account, knows my family and what I have as in house and family, yeah go ahead and pm him, he would say I am black, my wife is pretty and my kid are gorgeous and I haven't been pulling you all legs for 10 years. I live in a great place as my kids love to drive their mechanize atv's in the yard. I can't give this up for the cities. I turned down several more high paying jobs but they want me to relocate but don't want to pay the Real Estate fees. Starbucks, which my brother is the VP of his facility, is willing to pay me $160k to take over their IT department. I asked my wife and the look she gave me was..hell no, I am not moving to California. You see it is not that I can't get the job I want, there is too many factors in the decision and that is why I am upset. A prime job in my city that pays Minneapolis rates was for the taking and since I am nice person I didn't get the job. I know now that I have to be dick in an interview from now on in Fortune 20 companies.

    Still hoping the other candidate that beat me his rap sheet show some blemishes.
    One can always hope. Crazy they made you jump through so many hoops and loved you only to not give you the job. You'd think you could get something decent within about an hour or so of your place
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    Quote Originally Posted by AerchAngel View Post
    My brother said that my current company is abusing me.
    Not being paid top dollar is not exactly "abuse" nor uncommon.

    Quote Originally Posted by AerchAngel View Post
    I already went to the doc with a heart attack because I am miserable
    It was clever of you to see a doc with a heart attack, but I doubt being miserable caused it.

    Quote Originally Posted by AerchAngel View Post
    My doc said at my current salary I am being f*cked over
    Boy, I'll bet that made your heart feel better.

    Quote Originally Posted by AerchAngel View Post
    She suggested that I move
    Is she a real doctor?

    Quote Originally Posted by AerchAngel View Post
    Okie has my facebook account, knows my family and what I have as in house and family, yeah go ahead and pm him, he would say I am black, my wife is pretty and my kid are gorgeous and I haven't been pulling you all legs for 10 years. I live in a great place as my kids love to drive their mechanize atv's in the yard. I can't give this up for the cities.
    That does sound miserable.

    Quote Originally Posted by AerchAngel View Post
    I turned down several more high paying jobs but they want me to relocate but don't want to pay the Real Estate fees.
    It's a wonder you aren't dead yet.


    Quote Originally Posted by AerchAngel View Post
    Starbucks, which my brother is the VP of his facility
    What is a Starbucks facility?

    Quote Originally Posted by AerchAngel View Post
    ... is willing to pay me $160k to take over their IT department. I asked my wife and the look she gave me was..hell no, I am not moving to California.
    There must not be enought computer programmers in California. Btw, I thought Starbucks was based in Seattle?

    Quote Originally Posted by AerchAngel View Post
    You see it is not that I can't get the job I want, there is too many factors in the decision and that is why I am upset.
    So you went to see your doctor with a heart attack because life decisions are complex. I think I know why she wants you to move.

    Quote Originally Posted by AerchAngel View Post
    A prime job in my city that pays Minneapolis rates was for the taking and since I am nice person I didn't get the job.
    I guess nice guys really do finish last.

    Quote Originally Posted by AerchAngel View Post
    I know now that I have to be dick in an interview from now on in Fortune 20 companies.
    Who's Dick?

    Quote Originally Posted by AerchAngel View Post
    Still hoping the other candidate that beat me his rap sheet show some blemishes.
    You may get the job yet. There's nothing worse than a rap sheet full of blemishes.
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    quit being a pussy

    #justsaying

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    Thanks for the laugh

    Goldie,

    I was not born with money like you, so f*ck you.

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    wasn't born with money

    i don't see how you wouldn't act "cocky" in an interview. be confident in yourself and sell yourself to them or do your own thing with your product

    that is what, don't be a pussy means.

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    Quote Originally Posted by goldfly View Post
    wasn't born with money

    i don't see how you wouldn't act "cocky" in an interview. be confident in yourself and sell yourself to them or do your own thing with your product

    that is what, don't be a pussy means.
    I understand you my friend. My brother called me a pussy as well. And I told him to f*ck off as well. I was not anticipating this. Well they another position open so I am going to apply for it and use her as a reference like she said to do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AerchAngel View Post
    I understand you my friend. My brother called me a pussy as well. And I told him to f*ck off as well. I was not anticipating this. Well they another position open so I am going to apply for it and use her as a reference like she said to do.
    I wouldn't call it "not being a pussy" but I was always told, you have to act as if the company has to sell themselves to YOU as well. As if you're interviewing them for what they have to offer you and your career. And to always get a long with them, so I'm not what's wrong with coming across as a good, nice guy in an interview so i dunno what they were looking for.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yeezus View Post
    I wouldn't call it "not being a pussy" but I was always told, you have to act as if the company has to sell themselves to YOU as well. As if you're interviewing them for what they have to offer you and your career. And to always get a long with them, so I'm not what's wrong with coming across as a good, nice guy in an interview so i dunno what they were looking for.

    At least the hiring manager called my recruiter and said I had skillz and as a company would try to find something for me because did not want to lose me. Ah no thanks after I heard I didn't get the job because I wasn't serious enough. Heck, I never wore a freaking suit to any interview in my life and they wanted to see that. It was 100 effing degrees outside and where am I going to change at work (giant ass neon side that AA is leaving here for another position because he is wearing something he has never wore before)? Before you ask, I do not live in town so I couldn't go home and change and go to the interview in the 1:30 I had.

    At least McKesson has my work, hopefully it is enough to work out of Minneapolis. We shall see.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AerchAngel View Post
    At least the hiring manager called my recruiter and said I had skillz and as a company would try to find something for me because did not want to lose me. Ah no thanks after I heard I didn't get the job because I wasn't serious enough. Heck, I never wore a freaking suit to any interview in my life and they wanted to see that. It was 100 effing degrees outside and where am I going to change at work (giant ass neon side that AA is leaving here for another position because he is wearing something he has never wore before)? Before you ask, I do not live in town so I couldn't go home and change and go to the interview in the 1:30 I had.

    At least McKesson has my work, hopefully it is enough to work out of Minneapolis. We shall see.
    That's what you get for not wearing a suit to work every day. You're not maximizing your potential for ass kicking.
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