We used to get women on this forum. Not so much any more

But since it's just us guys now, lets talk about what it is and isn't to be male
Is it family, is it strength, is mature nurtuing --- I am curious what and how others think.

I will start with this notion of what to me it isn't:


Emily L. Hauser
‏Verified account @emilylhauser
Jan 19

A big part of toxic masculinity is teaching boys to bond over the shared humiliation of people they perceive to be vulnerable.

I think we have all at one time or another found our selves in this situation.
both sides !
The giver and the taker.

Some of the most steadfast men I have met have been more effeminite than RuPaul -- but solid men on all accounts


What think you??
What is your experience ?