Not being able to get your cake anywhere you want isn't things being forced on you.
My boss is gay, and my colleague is catholic. Over drinks they discuss their beliefs and why they believe them. I think she is wrong, but in no world does she "hate" like is commonly being thrown around by goldy. "Hate" will be the new "racist" when it comes to just crying wolf over and over and over again until it loses its meaning
Yes, that's what bothers gay people. Not being able to get cake anywhere we want.
"Hate" is a strong word that I don't throw around lightly myself. I tend to think of people who think badly of gays as either misguided, uninformed, ignorant, or out of touch. Or closet cases, haha. If someone has never been exposed to gay people, then I get it, it's hard, if not impossible, to wrap their heads around the concept, especially when society has prejudiced them against the idea from childhood on. If those people become verbally or physically abusive, then yes, I consider that hate.
Now, you'll say, but what about gay people who verbally or physically abuse religious people, such as the cake bakers, is that hate? Yes, but again, I get it. Religion has well earned the ire of gay people. Not all religions of course, but you know what I mean. Gay people finally feel empowered, able to live their lives openly and honestly. You try to shove that back in a closet or condemn it, and you're asking for a violent reaction.
If a bakery refused to make me a cake because I'm gay, it would be something of a shock and saddening, but I personally would turn the other cheek and walk away. Hey, thanks for letting me know. I wouldn't want to give them my money anyway. Plenty of gay-friendly businesses out there that deserve my money. Other people though are not willing to just walk away. The bakery is breaking the law and being called out on it.
I grew up Southern Baptist in Georgia and Virginia. When I turned 18, I never went back. It was just a poisonous and unhealthy environment for me. My mother didn't understand for years why I stopped going. I didn't necessarily stop believing in God though. I just stopped believing in Man's interpretation of God, at least the interpretation I grew up with. It didn't fit with what I knew to be true about life. And since then, if it encroaches on my life, then I stand up to it.
So, is all this part of the "overreach"? We should all overreach towards what is good and right. Is that a bad thing? Certainly not something to regret. I think the role it may have played in this election is just the last gasps of a dying belief for many people. Progress isn't a straight line, nor is it often easily won.