VirginiaBrave
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The real shame of it is if he had not gotten hurt he would have not been home.
The real shame of it is if he had not gotten hurt he would have not been home.
I’m willing to bet he still would have done this at another time, if he hadn’t already done it. He didn’t suddenly beat her bc he was bored.
Hate to disappoint you, but I would say nobody is w/o things they need to answer for in that relationship.
I’m willing to bet he still would have done this at another time, if he hadn’t already done it. He didn’t suddenly beat her bc he was bored.
You obviously don’t know what hearsay means. Several cops witnessing his hands around her neck and throwing her against the wall is not “hearsay”.
Does it bother anybody that she was threatening to filet him with a knife? Or that she had a history of DV arrest against him, when she whacked him upside the head last year with a metal soap dish?
I've been married to a violent, pill popping, vodka swilling, fentanyl chewing wife. It's not a given that he is an aggressive POS. I understand how it looks, but maybe a little due process, guys.
If it was just hearsay I may have a gentler opinion on the matter. But the cops literally witnessed him choking her against a wall. I'm all for due process though but the court of public opinion won't be kind to him. I'm also aware of how rage, especially over infidelity, can set a guy off who has no history of such actions. But that is still no excuse.
I’m sure there are plenty of things wrong within the Ozuna marriage, but Jesus Christ, you never, ever physically assault someone. She shouldn’t be beating on him and he shouldn’t be beating in her. Physical violence is never the answer. Physically abusing someone and asserting your physical dominance is a coward move. He’s a true POS if he did what the reports indicate. And if she’s beating on him she’s a POS too. Use your words. And if you’re incapable of not hitting someone then perhaps you should seek help and not be in a relationship with someone.
If it was just hearsay I may have a gentler opinion on the matter. But the cops literally witnessed him choking her against a wall. I'm all for due process though but the court of public opinion won't be kind to him. I'm also aware of how rage, especially over infidelity, can set a guy off who has no history of such actions. But that is still no excuse.
I am with Gov on this one, a woman comes at me with a knife it's her mistake. Not mine. And besides there is not a one of us on this board that would take finding out our spouse was cheating without some degree of hostility towards them.
I also had to laugh when I read that comment regarding tennis instructors. The only guy at the club who gets more illicit action is the golf pro.
This episode brought to mind an incident from my bartending days in a pretty rough bar. Two older couples (probably in their 50s, which is younger than me now, but way older than me at the time). One couple were regulars and the other couple was their guests. They'd been drinking for a bit when the husband of the couple I didn't know reached across the booth and slugged his wife in the jaw and it wasn't a glancing blow. I was over the bar a nanosecond after the punch landed to see if the wife was alright and then proceeding to toss him out of the bar (she followed of course). This was the early-1980s and they were far less enlightened times. I never thought about the possible fate I was sending the wife to. But what really struck me is that the husband of the other couple came up to me afterwards and said "You had no right to do that. That was an issue for them to work out." I was absolutely flabberghasted and I couldn't find the words immediately, but after a few seconds I said, "They obviously gotta work something out, but they aren't working it out in here when I'm behind the bar."
A buddy and I once saw a guy just deck his wife in a parking lot. Before I really comprehended what was happening my buddy was on him and just destroyed the guy, like broken nose, both eyes swollen shut, jaw needed wiring, destroyed the guy. He'd seen too much wife beating in his childhood home and snapped.
I tried to intervene in a similar situation at a movie theater a few months later and took the beating of my life. Hopefully the guy got all his aggression out on me, because he could really throw a punch.
I have no use for a wife beater. Leave if you need to, tackle her and hold her down if it's life or death, but no man worthy of the name hits a woman.
Bet she's never laid behind your car and refused to let you leave. Bet she never came at you with a knife.
Don’t stick your pecker in crazy. No matter how good it is. If you do, don’t come back for seconds.