1) I’m not going to argue the numbers, because as you said 300 compared to 20,000 is still the same argument.
2) Hamas started the war, and I agree Hamas is bad and shouldn’t be in power. But I’m not sold on Israel’s efforts to bring an end to the conflict when they’re destroying *everything* in Gaza.
3) If your family was murdered today by someone from Pakistan whose family was killed in a drone strike, you would just say “well I guess I had that coming.”
Point number 3 is irrelevant. I am not an objective observer in that situation.
By the same logic, I suppose if Palestine attacked us and your family was murdered, you would just take it on the chin and allow them the keep murdering more Americans.