Success can be construed any way you want but MONEY is ultimately the unit of value in our society and the ones that can attract more money are inherently more valuable in society AS WE DEFINE IT.
But that’s because the reward structures in our system favor the traits you’re saying are inherently masculine. So why is the only obvious solution for investors to continue to steer their capital toward organizations/leaders that favor those traits? You’re not making a claim that “masculine” traits are just presently favored over “feminine” traits by the current system. You’re arguing that it’s obvious that it should and doing anything else would disrupt some natural order.
Or in short: it sure is a strange coincidence that the things you need to be a successful leader in the world just so happens to be the ones you most associate with the group of people that developed the better weapons ~500 years ago.