BedellBrave
It's OVER 5,000!
I think that the current divisions in the community have less to do with Spong and more to do with the same kind of liberal/progressive vs. conservative/traditional questions that exist in most mainline protestant churches. There were schisms over the ordination of women in the 70s and over the ordination of gays in the 2000. I'm not sure what your friends' particular situations are, but in my experience, Spong is irrelevant.
Gays is acceptable, most religions have no problem with that,
Well, not exactly. I'd guess that's the main reason that BB's friend's parish is in communion with the Primate of Rwanda and not the ECUSA.
Oh, and I almost hate going here, but it needs to be said, I think a measure of the divide is because of Western arrogance and racism.