I wanted to take a moment to make the important distinction between espousing "grievances" as you suggest and ad hominem attacks against one's character or integrity (typically guised as, or in combination with, unwelcome snarkiness). I have said time and time again that everyone is not only entitled to express disdain or disappointment in a deal (or deals), but that variation in opinion is actually healthy for intellectual discourse. I maintain that stance today as I always have. In fact I said I too was dismayed when I first learned of the Heyward trade and it was not until I spoke with my source that I felt different about the offseason and the path forward. Like Julio, my son is not white and his favorite player is Jason. I have met Eugene Heyward. I have 3 Heyward jerseys and my son's favorite player is Jason. Just because I feel like the FO's decision met the Revlon standard duty of care does not mean I didn't feel the emotional sting of losing my favorite player. That being said, I understand that the collective interests of the team/organization trumps the individual, and after hearing certain facts, I was able to divorce my initial visceral reaction from understanding that the FO believes the trade was not only in the best interests of the organization, but actually is one that will aid us in years to come.
I do not expect people to simply assume that I'm credible. I understand this is the internet. However, the way some did it was not simply "airing grievances"- and that's why I took issue with it. Yes I called it "bitching" and that was probably wrong (well, some of it I think could be properly characterized as that but I was making a broad generalization and for that I was wrong and apologize)-- but I will no longer share anything I hear openly since I think some either misconstrue it, try and undermine it, or otherwise ridicule it. I'm perfectly content keeping that information to myself and limiting my participation to threads where I feel I can add value.
Wish you all the best this holiday season... and while we may not all agree with personnel decisions, I will be rooting for every Brave come 2015.