People don't get why New Jersey is the greatest state in the union, I simply tell them imagine you want anything, burgers, mexican, thai, almost any major retailer, whatever, and you're about 10-45 minutes from one. Aside from the Northwest part of the state (don't go there) NJ is full of awesome. And the shore is always awesome because it's heydays were all 30+ years ago if you find the right spots, so it's retro without trying. Asbury Park and Belmar are 2 of my favorite shore towns for different reasons.
To describe the full of awesome. I'm living in northern New Hampshire. For starters, I've never lived somewhere so far behind the "new" scene if you would. NJ was a little behind because it typically flowed from New York whenever something new happened. Anyway. The food is something I miss so dearly. They have italian, and chinese, and some breweries, but it's not the same. Like up here if you go to get pizza it's either good and way overpriced, or cheap and crappy. There is no cheap but good pizza like I grew up a 2 minute walk from. Chinese, forget about it, there's I think 1 Chinese place around me, and my girlfriend doesn't want to eat there because it sucks. Whereas in New Brunswick you threw a rock you hit a Chinese place that was good. Thai there is a thai place near, but it's kind of like someone wanted to be a New York Thai restaurant. It's not very good. And for italian food, well same as the Pizza, you can get good Italian food at a premium or bad italian food for cheap. In NJ there still were those premium places, but there were also some places that were good cheap italian. I never ate at a bad Italian place, cause where I lived they'd be swallowed up in a heart beat by good ones.
Of all the places I've lived, which of course isn't that broad, New Brunswick was my favorite. Sure there were traffic issues (New Brunswick has the luxury of being by a super busy stretch of 1, and the Turnpike) but there was always something to do. I would want an apartment that I could stagger home from after boozing though, that I missed.