zitothebrave
Connoisseur of Minors
I'm always wanting to learn more about history. If I have a wrong impression I welcome new information.
For Lee's views on slavery, I'm going largely by his own writings. They came across as a guy who clearly knew what he was doing was wrong and enjoyed the idea that it would eventually end. He was on the progressive end for a slave owner in those views. Granted, that's not saying a whole lot. However, his personal prosperity depended on slaves and so he tried to justify its necessity and the harsh tactics he used.
Ultimately he seemed to choose the Thomas Jefferson path of hypocrisy on slavery. High minded in word but low in deed.
And as a battlefield strategist, Lee was truly exceptional. That's not the myth that's grown up around him, it's a reputation he earned at the time. There's a reason he could have been the head of the Union army had he chose to remain loyal to the Union.
Lee took a far smaller, far more poorly equipped force and actually scored victories. Chancellorsville was absolutely brilliant battlefield strategy. His biggest issue as a general is that he was a product of his training. The South had no chance of going toe to toe with the North long term but this is what Lee (and pretty much every other Southern general) did.
Here's an interesting thought experiment. If Lee was born and raised in Maryland instead of Virginia, how is he viewed today? An American hero that is vilified in the south? Quite possibly.
Comparing Lee's success to brilliant Generals is hardly anything great. McClellan had a penchant for not sending his army in unless he felt like he had the most 2 to 1 odds. He could have snuffed Lee's army out in the early goings of the wars but he was too chicken. There's a reason Grant taking over was the big turning point in the War. Grant was not afraid to send troops into a spotty battle. He knew long term his side had the numbers and the mechanical advantage. ANd that was after Lee had years to recruit and train. If Grant was in charge instead of McClellan that part of the campaign would have gone a lot faster. That being said, then the question of if Grant was running the Eastern Campaign, what happened out West, where Grant and Co. won countless victories over the Confederates.
As far as your last point, Lee had a choice, he could have fought for the Union. He opted not to. If Lee cared about the Union, he would have fought for it. But he cared about the right to own slaves more.