I actually respect your position as a free-speech absolutist. I sympathize with it, and share it to some degree, but I can’t quite go all in on considering private platforms banning certain types of speech as being a matter of concern on par with government regulation of speech.
I think your framing of the issue bespeaks some confirmation bias. If you consider the demonetization of YouTube videos to be censorship and an affront to free speech, you’d also consider public campaigns to get people fired for their speech to be the same, right? The right engages in that to no small degree. That you personally do not is perhaps commendable w/r/t your principles, but it’s silly to pretend that there aren’t equivalent efforts, now and for as long as I can remember.