sturg33
I
https://www.thecut.com/2017/10/the-men-taking-classes-to-unlearn-toxic-masculinity.html
The Men Taking Classes to Unlearn Toxic Masculinity
So earlier this year, Hicks signed up for the pilot Rethink Masculinity class, a partnership between the Washington, D.C., Rape Crisis Center, Collective Action for Safe Spaces, and ReThink, an organization that works to prevent sexual assault.
The program bills itself as a class where men “learn how social constructs of masculinity harm them and the people around them, and work to construct healthier masculinities.” Or, as Hicks puts it, “It was eight weeks of guys discussing how they can address their actions with better self-awareness and less toxicity.”
“We spoke of emotional labor, consent, violence, communication, empathy, and vulnerability,” he adds, noting that the last subject, in particular, was a struggle for him: “[I was] trained and conditioned to be tough growing up.”
....
There’s no doubt that the problems these classes aim to tackle are pervasive ones — a reality that’s been made especially, painfully clear in recent days and weeks, as the Harvey Weinstein revelations have pushed discussions of sexual assault and harassment to the forefront. But can a class really be enough to chip away at something so deeply entrenched?
....
On the other hand, though, these classes are taking on a lot. Trying to undo a lifetime’s worth of lessons about how to act at home, in the workplace, and in public — it’s a lofty goal, especially when so much of what participants encounter outside the classroom contradicts what they learn within it. And some of the desired outcomes — increased vulnerability, more emotional openness — are difficult to measure.
This guy was trained to be tough growing up. The horror! The audacity! The unmitigated gall!
I really am not sure what our future holds. Nobody is being trained to deal with controversy anymore... I wonder if employers will soon be so empathetic and nice to everyone, or if these kids will be in for such a rude awakening that they won't be handle the real world after the school playground lets them go.
If I ever do have kids, I do believe I will be homeschooling, or at the very least, ensuring they are not subjected to such a fragile coddling of emotions.