So what's the problem here?
He had a woman who seemingly encouraged him to get rough and he obliged
And it's patently obvious she did this to extort him.
Bauer is the victim here. Your wokeness doesn't change that
Wokeness? WTF are you even talking about?
The problem is those were some pretty dark things he admitted to doing. Whether it's consensual or not isn't really relevant. I would question anyone anyone's character who willfully engaged in that behavior.
That doesn't mean he deserves to be blackballed by the league. And I would hope he wins any legal recourse. But let's not paint him out to be a saint either.