As I'm sure you both would've suspected, I am sympathetic trans- community complaints, and the rights issues of marginalized communities generally. Having said that, the speech-policing really is reaching an unsavory level in a lot of corners, and—should it continue—is not a healthy trend. It's especially problematic on university campuses, where being forced to confront a wealth of ideas—even ideas with which one vehemently diverges—is massively important to intellectual/philosophical/spiritual development.
That's why—and I'm about to sneak in a soft boast, in case you need a #triggerwarning—I'm very proud that my alma mater (and former employer of our oft-vilified current President, no less) has taken a pretty hard line against this sort of highly-limited speech-policing, allowing some very politically unpopular (and I mean "politics" in the most broad and original sense) individuals, who were otherwise qualified or knowledgeable, to speak on campus despite pressure from various student advocacy groups.