WRONG!!!! See this is the point that many white people are missing about the whole BlackLivesMatter movement and why it will continue to gain steam. There are PLENTY of black people who act in decent ways towards authority and people of all races etc. That respect is NOT given back to us. Look at what happened to Oprah several years ago. The woman is rich as sin and disrespected in a high end store because of the color of her skin. We are treated like second class citizens no matter if we act in a civilized manner or not. But we have has ENOUGH!!!! So when you see the attitude we are simply telling you that we are tired of the BS. I can bet you almost every black man who post here can tell you their personal stories about racism. It does not matter if you are rich, college educated, and speak perfect english. Society through media, entertainment and as a whole has told us that being black in America is a sin. No matter how successful we may become...as Kanye stated "Even in a Benz you still a Nigg@ in a coup" to white America.
Sandra Bland did nothing wrong to warrant that treatment. It is time that White people in America make a change. If they want to crush the BlackLivesMatter movement than many have to start treating black people better. Heal the rifts with the Black Community. At the end of the day NOTHING that Ms. Bland did was uncivilized. She demanded explanation. The cop never gave her the reason but because she was a "black" that B!tch need to be put in her place by being treated like dirt. Having an attitude does not make one uncivilized.
Okay we are going to fight. As a black man that dated many black women, we have a disagreement on how treatment is assessed. My finding that beautiful women like and smart want us black men to be equals in pay and stature. You might not be the case, but if you really look at it, I DON'T BLAME THEM, but don't throw stones unless you go full monty on it. Also it is a power struggle, again, I agree with the women because we basically effed it up. I mean I almost got married to a black woman who I grew up with and loved to death, but when she got her papers and what not, she changed. I had my papers and she made more than me and then the demands. I thought to myself could I constantly live with that. I decided not to. She was livid when I called it off and just berated every black man in four states. Dogs, idiots, stupid and other names I can't even put on here. All I said to her is why did you change, I was faithful which she acknowledged (well she would have Bobitt me if I did anything) and treated her like a queen, she wanted more. What could I possibly do? She said get a better paying job.
So do not say we do not respect you, just the broke azz nogs that don't want to keep their dick in their pants without protection and those who doesn't want to work.
I went to our warehouse, of the 100 blacks that live in this city including me there is 3 of us that work in the company, there are a two in the warehouse (no, I don't know them, I am an office person) doing a great job and I asked the supervisor about one I saw and pointed him out. How is he doing, he said great worker, wish I had more, then corrected himself, more like him in work ethics not just blacks. Good catch by him. But when I went to him (black guy), I ask how is the company treating you, he said really well. I asked if he had other brothers that need jobs, he said yeah and I said why don't they apply, the pay is good almost double minimum wage. The look he gave me is what I thought, he said that they DID NOT WANT to work.
I can see why some black successful females have problem with black males. The females will work unlike us and if they have kids, a lot of them would work 2 and 3 jobs unlike the deadbeat black dads (ones you see on Springer and Maury) to make sure their kids have the best.
Sorry if I pissed you off Jersey Girl, just keeping it real.
